What We’re Reading in August: Books to Guide You Through Grief
Grief is a journey that often feels solitary, but the wisdom of others can light the path forward. In honor of National Grief Awareness Day (August 30), we’re sharing two powerful books on grief written by psychologists and therapists in the past five years—plus two tender recommendations for young readers. Whether you’re navigating loss yourself or supporting someone who is, these books offer insight, comfort, and tools for healing.
1. The Grief Recovery Handbook: The Action Program for Moving Beyond Death, Divorce, and Other Losses
By John W. James and Russell Friedman (Updated 2022)
While not entirely new, this updated edition of the classic guide by grief recovery specialists James and Friedman remains essential. It challenges the myth of “time healing all wounds” and instead offers a structured, compassionate approach to processing unresolved grief. Through actionable steps, readers learn to acknowledge pain, complete unfinished emotional business, and rebuild their lives with clarity and purpose. A practical resource for anyone feeling “stuck” in loss.
2. Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief
By Dr. Joanne Cacciatore (2017)
Psychologist and bereavement expert Dr. Cacciatore writes with raw honesty about the searing pain of loss—particularly the death of a child—and the transformative power of sorrow. Blending personal stories, clinical insights, and mindfulness practices, this book validates the intensity of grief while gently guiding readers toward a life that honors both love and loss. A profound read for those who need permission to grieve deeply, without apology.
Bonus: Books About Grief for Children
1. The Memory Box: A Book About Grief
By Joanna Rowland (2017)
This beautifully illustrated picture book helps children process loss by creating a “memory box” to hold treasured moments of a loved one. With simple, heartfelt language, it normalizes big emotions and offers a tangible way for kids to celebrate connections that never fade. A gentle tool for families navigating grief together.
2. The Invisible String
By Patrice Karst (2000, but timeless)
A beloved classic, this heartwarming story reassures children (and adults!) that love transcends physical separation. Through the metaphor of an “invisible string” connecting hearts across any distance, it offers comfort to kids coping with loss, loneliness, or anxiety. Perfect for starting conversations about love, loss, and enduring bonds.
May these books meet you where you are—offering solace, understanding, and perhaps a new way forward. What’s on your reading list this month? Share your recommendations with us.
P.S. For more resources, revisit our Founder’s Corner article on grief.