What We’re Reading in February: Books to Deepen Love for Yourself and Others

February is often associated with love, but true love isn’t just about grand gestures or romantic relationships—it starts with how we love and care for ourselves. This month, we’re exploring two transformative books that delve into self-love, personal growth, and the ways our inner world shapes our relationships with others.

In It Begins With You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life, relationship coach Jill Turecki offers a no-nonsense guide to understanding love at its core. Drawing from years of coaching experience, Turecki presents nine fundamental truths about love—truths that may be difficult to accept but are essential for building deep, meaningful connections. She challenges readers to examine their own patterns, break unhealthy cycles, and develop emotional intelligence, ultimately showing that love isn’t just something we find—it’s something we cultivate through self-awareness and personal growth.

Meanwhile, The Magic in Me: Transform Your Relationship with Yourself and the Key People in Your Life by psychologist Dr. Rina Bajaj takes a holistic approach to self-discovery and emotional well-being. Bajaj explores how the way we see ourselves directly influences our relationships with family, friends, and partners. Through a mix of psychological insights, personal stories, and practical exercises, she guides readers in fostering self-acceptance, setting healthy boundaries, and developing the confidence to create fulfilling connections. This book is a powerful reminder that before we can truly love others, we must first embrace and nurture ourselves.

Whether you’re on a journey of self-healing, looking to improve your relationships, or simply eager to gain fresh perspectives on love, these books offer invaluable wisdom. Let’s explore what makes them must-reads this month.